Services

Systemic Coaching &
Family Systems Work

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Sometimes we lose touch with ourselves – caught between expectations, routines, and the wish to do everything right. I accompany you in finding clarity again: understanding what you need, feel, and truly want. Together, we look at patterns, dynamics, and connections with openness, empathy, and a holistic perspective. This work is not about advice or quick solutions, but about discovering your own answers and learning to trust them.

How I work

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My coaching offers a space to arrive – safe, respectful, and genuine. I listen carefully, ask questions that invite depth, and hold the space in which new perspectives can emerge. We also take a compassionate look at your background and the systems you come from, to understand where certain patterns may have their roots.

Humour and lightness are always welcome. They help loosen stuck thoughts and allow change to unfold gently. For me, coaching means walking alongside you as you recognise your own path – grounded in understanding your story and trusting yourself.

Working Together

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Every process begins with an informal introductory conversation – open, curious, and on equal footing. Together, we explore what’s currently on your mind and what you’d like to change.

Coaching sessions can take place online, by phone, or in person – whatever feels right for you. Some conversations happen in a calm space, others while walking outdoors. Sessions usually last between 60 and 90 minutes – time just for you. A conscious pause in everyday life, a moment of self-care. Because you are worth giving yourself time. What matters most is not the pace, but that you feel comfortable and that growth can unfold in your own rhythm.

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Testimonials

  • “Xandi helped me find my way back to myself with her open manner. I felt disoriented and couldn't find the right perspective. The coaching was purposeful and productive, and I felt truly understood at all times. Through Xandi's sensitive way of asking targeted questions, I gradually came closer to the answers myself. After just a few sessions, I had a better picture of myself. The strategies that Xandi laid out for me serve as a daily guide to a more relaxed and happier self. I am deeply grateful.”

    – Robert, 45, Entrepreneur

  • “Pragmatic, empathetic, humorous, and highly professional. I have completed several coaching sessions with Xandi and was completely satisfied every single time. She is a warm and approachable person – you immediately feel comfortable and well supported, which creates the ideal setting for coaching. Xandi works with practical exercises, asks exactly the right questions, and draws on a rich repertoire of metaphors and images that make insights tangible and lasting. Xandi supported me greatly during a challenging period of transition. I’m certain we will work together again in the near future – and I’m already looking forward to it.”

    – Sinah, 35, Manager

  • “Coaching with Xandi feels like an honest conversation with a trusted friend – only with professional depth. She creates a space where I feel both safe and brave. Through our work, I learned to sense my boundaries, let go, and make choices with more lightness.”

    – Clara, 39, Manager

  • "My coaching with Xandi was a valuable support during a phase when I had to make many important decisions about my life path, my role, and regaining autonomy over my own life and time. Xandi provided me with wonderful methods that clearly revealed what my inner self truly needs and wants. She managed to create a warm and safe space where I felt comfortable and understood. Through her empathetic manner, encouraging words, and reflective and mirroring statements, I was able to bring more clarity, confidence, and structure into my life during our coaching sessions."

    Ines, 27, Student